AVG - Day 8

Q: Dear Guruji you told us that our life is driven by happiness, then why is there so much suffering, pain in this world?

Sri Sri : Mullah naseerudin`s wife was in her last month of pregnancy .The case had some complications so the doctor advised Mullah to go for a surgery. Then Mullah replied you need not have to do surgery. Wait I will come. The doctors waited not knowing where Mullah went .Finally Mullah was back with some toys. Why did you go to the toy shop the doctors questioned him. Mullah replied “He is my child so he is bound to be greedy listening to the toys sound he might come out easily without any pain to my wife.”

We are greedy in both the planes i.e. in spiritual as well as materialistic plane. In both the planes we are greedy. There is greed to get something ,always. How are you going to get happiness in pursuit of greed/profit my dear? Neither the person who is full of desires nor the person who is greedy, it is the person who is NISHKRIYA who gets the bliss. The happiness or pleasure you get in the company of others is very insignificant; It is like the flame of a candle. Nisangh is the key to real happiness. In the pursuit of search for happiness our body, mind and praana all are burnt and then too we are left empty handed. And then you again go through the cycles of birth and death to again search for happiness. When you get a guru who tells you “YOU ARE NIRANJANAH” you become pacified and relax and then become happy. Become nishkriya.(Iska matlab ye nahi ki hum usko karna chhod de nahi.(Yagya , daan ,tap sab kaarya hai aur in sab kaarya se bhi sukh milta hai. Karna hai lekin iske bawajood who kushi seemit hai.Uska apna sthaan hai.)You experience your real form only in Nishkriyata. Its easy to say that “become nishkriya” but it is the most difficult thing. We can never stay quite. For small periods of time, meditate. Become calm and peaceful.(rajogun shaanth ho tab nishkriya ho jaate hai).when we clap together for singing a bhajan what happens after we sing, we get tired and and we sit quite for 2 minutes, we slip into meditation. We climb up the hills of VAISHNO DEVI why then the rajogun gets relaxed and then the, moment you enter the temple premises and sit there and you relax you enter deep into the realm of yourself and you feel good. Why is the structure for climbing the hills? The more the pride the more to prove by action enforces us to do something. You did something ok but then relax somewhere .When you climb the mountains praanayam happens and then you get all the aches but yet when you see the shrine what happens you get happiness when you rest there for few minutes you go into meditation. But here you do all the pranayaam and on the kriya and get the same amount of bliss that too without any aches. The moment that feverishness or desire of action gets rid off, then you become NISHKRIYA. (sang se milne waala sukh seemit hai)The liveliness /capacity of the senses to enjoy are limited. How much will you listen to satsang, pravachan and music? Seeing,touch,taste,and smell all have limited capacity to enjoy but the greed of the mind is unlimited. It is with us before your birth itself. We have been playing with different types of toys and moving ahead. This is happening even in the spiritual realm also. The greed is only moving you ahead. Go beyond greed.(Samadhi se siddhiyan milti hain)But for that don’t hold Samadhi also. Samadhi can happen with eyes open also. Samadhi means to nurture your mind in such a way that you see everything in the equal way or equal plane. It is like you liked the shampoo that you have applied on your hair and you don’t want to wash off your hair. To sublime the ego the techniques of samadhi is given but of you have the ego of Samadhi itself then it is wrong. This at times takes us on the path of greed also. The person who is happy can never have greed.(dene ka anootha ananad hai).Only the rich can give.(Lene ka anand bachpana hai.Dene ka anand rayees ka hai)A person who has wealth may not give what he has .Is that called richness???? NO. Only the rich can give. I am free and I am happy- only this thing is true or worth attaining. Let anybody take or not that should not bother you from your nature of giving. Like a flower never says that my smell should not reach that person or this person. Be with this innate nature and be happy and contented. Become happily intoxicated with this thought .I am oozing with and oozing out happiness. Giving is my nature.( Mere ko koi lena dena nahi hai)Become liberated with this thought.

Don’t become a victim of small mind (chothe man).(Tumse saara sansaar oth proth hai).Now you will think how is it true?(kaise ban gaya)Do you know how many trucks of food has gone into your mouth?

Including breakfast, lunch , dinner, snacks and everything you eat aprrox 2kgs of food daily so for 365 days how much (365 *2 is 370) approximately 750 kgs of food and you have lived here for 40-50 years so you have consumed totally about 750 * 40 is 30000 kg that is approx 5-6 full truck loads of food has gone. How many gallons of water you have drunk? All this must have gone and half must have gone through your bowels and the other half must have been through your body constitution and all the liquids through sweat and urine. Just wake your mind up. All these are recycled. The entire body changes in one year. In one month the skin ,in 3 months the bone and in 24 hours the entire blood changes(yeh sab parmaanu ka haer pher hai)You are an immutable part of the Sun. If the sun would not have been there the entire existence would have collapsed.(Tum aur sansaar abhibhaajya(inseperable) hai).All these five elements seem to be gross but they are all just vibrations. Where is your thought? There are some good thoughts and there are some bad thoughts. You are beyond the realm of thoughts. Your thoughts are affected by the place and the food. You become focused on your self. You are always pure mind and liberated. Just remember this feeling.(jab trupt rahte ho to apeksha nahi hoti).there is a desire behind anger. When you are happy, how can any desire come. What do we call vikaar as – it is nothing but pride and anger. The feeling of superiority complex comes within us that we are something great .It is good in a way you should have it. There is something hidden when you see stiffness. To hide something only we show that we are rigid (pol ko chipaane ke liye hi akad hai).Being natural and easy come along with fulfillment. If you are full, then becoming fee of desires is but natural.(kshobhit chit mein kami hai).A wavering intellect or an unsteady mind always lacks something. To hide that we do so many drams and schemes. One who is very rich will not show off one who has become rich will show off. You have got such a deep and vast mind and yet you consider yourself as a fool. If you consider so, you will be like that only. (jasie bddhi waise gati)We have to keep some or the other desire then keep your desire for the chaitanya or consciousness.For life there should be a direction (dariya ko behane ke liye dishaa to chahiye).The goal of any desire is happiness. So keep that desire towards chinmaatra chaitanya.and move towards it.(Satsang mein chaitanya ki shakti milti hai)Keep having this desire of satsang.

All the scientists say that whatever has a form is not true and why it is not true because it all changes. There are changes in your face and body. The more you try to stop the ageing process it is not possible. The body moves on its own principles. The most gross is the bone and the most subtle is the mind. Every year there is a change in the bone of the dead body. Then in the alive the changes are more prominent and faster. Everything is bound to change here. The bone which is seen as gross and the mind which is subtle is also bound to change.(Man,buddhi, ko bhi saakar maana gaya hai sirf aatma niraakar hai).All that is having a shape is bound to change. And you are not SAAKAAR. You are NIRAAKAR. This knowledge of the tatwwa(elemental knowledge) if you get it from an enlightened being or a guru then you will have no birth again. However if wish to take birth you can. It is like the guide and the traveler are walking. Both experience different states of emotions. The one who is a traveler is frightened, looks everywhere with doubt, is afraid to keep the next step and all these but the guide is like a staff .He is leading the traveler. He knows what happens at every step. But both travel the same way. Both the guide and the traveler are on the same route similarly the life is being lead both by gyaani and agyaani .An enlightened being enjoys his life with absolute happiness and bliss whereas the same life is lead by an agyaani by always cribbing and crying.